HOLLY SHIFT LETTER

The shift in perception changes everything

Holly Shift - From "In order for me to be happy, you should........."
To I am responsible for making myself happy

One of the common themes in my coaching sessions is

that many of my clients outsource their needs to others as if
Other people “should” give them what they need.

Is that you? How is it working for you?
Are you feeling frustrated instead of feeling happy?

Other people should “Make” you feel what you want to feel

Your husband should know what you need and do it according to your expectations

People should compliment you so you can feel good enough

Your boss should validate how much effort you put in this project

This leads to Resentment, Confusion and Frustration

Leaving your needs up to other people causes you pain…. Because they aren’t going to do it right most of the time!

And then you blame them for all the things you don’t have, feel, and desire

It is time to stop the blame!

It is SO much more Powerful and Controllable to give yourself what you need!

Do you know what you need?

Do you know how to give that to yourself?

Ask yourself what it is
Find the answer
And then give that to yourself

This way, no one can take it away from you.
And, you start creating a relationship with yourself and all your needy parts!

Want to experience your Holly Shift?

I currently have two openings for free 60min coaching sessions.

No strings attached. It is strictly in service to you and your needs.

Just email me at jewelslammcoaching@gmail.com