I HATE CONFLICTS!

Imagine that you are talking to your partner
And, …. O! No!!!! Your “worst” fear is happening!!!

Your conversation is heating up

And….. Yes, your worst case scenario happens:
your partner walks away

leaving you standing in the middle of the room

Feeling…….

Are you even aware of what you are feeling?

Pause …and connect with your answers.

Well, if you are just like many of my clients

And how I was in the past, which is

I was aware that I felt uncomfortable

But at that moment my mind hijacked over

my body, feelings and emotions to “rescue”me

from feeling uncomfortable.

My first thought was always:

“I hate conflicts!”

Does it feel familiar?

That is your reactive (subconscious) mind doing

Its job of “protecting” you and keeping you “safe”

From feeling all the feels of that uncomfortable situation.

If my subconscious (reactive) mind has learned that

“I hate conflicts” then it keeps me in the loop of doing the

same thing over again, which is avoiding conflicting situations.

When conflicts arise, my reactive mind knows that

avoiding my feelings and emotions and blaming the

other person for being impatient and unloveable has
“worked” in the past so it must be the best strategy?

Strategy for what?

For better connection?

For better understanding?

For a “thriving” relationship?

Or

For better disconnection?

For better misunderstanding?

For a “surviving” relationship?

In order for you to answer these

questions from the empowered state,
you need to learn how to process
your emotions, feelings that arise
in your body so you have space
for your creative (conscious) mind to

imagine your “best” case scenario from
the space of curiosity but not blame.

Let’s face it,
when your partner walks away from your
heated conversation,

you feel rejected, which

goes against your “survival” instinct

TO BELONG,

TO FEEL CONNECTED,

TO BE LOVED AND UNDERSTOOD.

When you are in this state of “survival” constantly,

you start questioning your relationship with your
partner. You start doubting your love for your partner
and your partner’s love for you.

When you are in this state of “survival”, your body
holds this energy. If this energy is not being processed,

it gets stuck. You feel stuck! You feel overwhelmed.

However, energy is designed to flow.
Your emotions is your energy in motion.

When you are stuck, what do you do?
Most of my female clients start judging themselves:

“It must be my hormones”,

“I must be getting old”,

“I must need to lose weight”,

“I am not good enough”,

“I must be unlovable”,

“I am not worthy of being seen, understood and loved”.

Let me just tell you:
“There is nothing wrong with you!”

But when you’ve been in the “survival” mode

and feeling disconnected from your own magic,

your language is simply a reflection of your emotional state

that has not been processed for years.

Our language is very valuable.

The statements above represent our language
when we are stuck in the flight and fight response
to many conflicting situations in the past even though

they happened a long time ago.

Riding your waves of emotions and thriving in your
relationship is a “magical” art of creation that
starts with creating your relationship with yourself.

You are the magic!

The more you connect with your body - emotions,

sensations and feelings, the more you connect

with your own magic that allows you to reclaim your

power in creating a thriving relationship with your partner.

Allow your emotions to be your guides in creating magical

pathways for reconnecting with your own magic and reclaiming

your power.

If you feel stuck and overwhelmed

Or

If you feel like you’ve been in a “survival”

mode and you’ve “lost” your power,

I’ve created this Mind & Body Connections session

with you in mind.

If you are ready to reclaim your power and reconnect

with your magic, CLICK THIS LINK and I will see you on

The other side of your thriving relationship.

You deserve to THRIVE!

You do not wait for a magical relationship to happen!

You create your magical relationship!

You are the MAGIC!

Your MAGIC IS WITHIN!

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